Wednesday, January 5, 2011

End of the year to force the amulet career and leadership along

 Text / Suzhou how part-time network
along with the leadership?
For those who defeated the workplace, leadership as unreasonable of monsters, can not close. The truth of course is not so! And leadership communication, the following two concerns can discourage you .
and cold market leader talk how to do?
do not know how, see a short circuit leading to the brain, speaking prevarication, in addition to echoing ideas have come to the Zhao Waguo! fact, this is because you care too much about leadership. too concerned with others, others will perceive. You do not calculated to appeal to the leadership, like all natural. The more you peace of mind, others will have more peace of mind. As a leader, a few will feel slow? you do not escape the tension leading eyes.
communication and leadership if the cold field, then did not need to blame, why subordinates responsible for the cold field? Meihuazhaohua is tension in the transmission. tense state, thought is suppressed, only more difficult to make conversation. In fact, language is limited, as non-verbal attitude will affect each other. If you are too nervous, they will perceive to feel unwelcome, then got the message to leave. So you just like to relax. ease, peace of mind is like a powerful gas field, able to surround you, but also surrounded each other.
how to get the leadership of the problem?
make you unhappy things happen, you want to charging into the impulse led office, this rational? If charging into the big BOSS's office, not so polite, and very likely to welcome. If you are in small business, then no problem, you can request directly to the supervisor, to conduct a more equal exchange. If it is in large enterprises, or to follow the procedures go. This is a strategy which, you have to let each other know you are not for personal grievances, but to the common interests of the team.
after seeing the leadership , you have to show that you not bring difficulties, but solutions. If it is hoped that promotion, we should introduce their achievements, so that the leaders to redefine your work. You may feel embarrassed, this is normal, Tell the leadership that the other party will generally respect you, but deliberately hidden so that you look stupid.
brush emotional farewell
Looking back end of the year 2010 is fading, what do you think? will bid farewell to the manner in which this memorable year? psychologist recommended that picked up a brush, free graffiti: blue, pink, green hh roses, carnations, fluffy bunny cactus hh, roaring tiger, free dolphin hh can help you find these pictures themselves, sort out the emotional confusion, to meet better the coming year.
emotional color
If you use color to describe their emotional year primary colors, which you will use or what kinds of colors? red, yellow, blue, gray, black or white? or any other color you think?
Overall, those warm colors such as red, yellow, green, orange represents a positive mood, the cool colors such as blue , black, gray represents negative emotions. The more intense the color, represents the more intense emotions.
little reminder: If the color is too strong, to the shocking extent, even warm, but also that there are some need to have some balance in the emotional level. Those strong emotions can continue for some time, but if sustained for too long, not necessarily a good thing. such as strong red, may represent too busy or too optimistic, or irritable mood. All color is the signal.
emotional
If you plant a plant used to describe the year, your main emotions, what kind of plants would you use? is a flowering tree? or a green ? or a cactus? or other plants you think?
Usually, the trees that bear fruit represents the healthy growth and harvest.
which knot filled with those big, a limited number of fruit on their own behalf people, usually targeted, but also quite good harvest people.
more but smaller young by those who represent their own fruit, usually rewarding, but people scattered in every aspect.
with flowering plants to describe their main emotion, representing the mood of the bloom, representing good and confident.
flowering plant with leaves no mood to describe their main man, representing a year of flat growth while emotional smooth, no major ups and downs.
those cactus plants to describe his main emotions, representing the emotional suffering, the poor living environment and adhere to.

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